Long term relationships don’t come easy to most men. While some require constant effort from both the partners’ side, some are just not meant to be. No matter how much you want them to work, some relationships are destined to draw you two to a dead-end and nothing else. Here are 5 signs yours is one of those.
No Mutual Respect
The first step to any healthy relationship, be it a romantic one or just a casual friendship, is mutual respect. If you find yourself belittling her at every point, if she violates your personal boundaries constantly, you two probably lack it.
What You Want From Life Is Poles Apart
We know you’ve always heard that opposites attract. And they do too. But if the two partners differ on the fundamentals of leading the life they want to, there is not much that the attraction can do about it. If your goals are incompatible, there is an even lesser chance of the relationship working out in the long run.
You Don’t Have Time For Each Other
This one’s quite simple. If you do not have a serious relationship in your priority list, there’s no miracle happening that easy. Even if you have stumbled into a committed relationship, it’s not heading anywhere if you cannot give it the time and attention it deserves.
You’ve Lost Interest
Do you often find yourself texting away when she’s talking? Have you started to zone out in the middle of discussions with her? You’re probably bored of your relationship, and more importantly – your partner. Deny it all you want, it will still come out in the open and knock her on the head.
No, having arguments doesn’t mean you’re on the wrong track. It is only when the arguments get petty and a little too bitter that you should know that you two are probably very frustrated of the relationship. If your arguments break all bounds of consideration and care for each other, it’s probably time you should call it quits, because it’s obviously not going anywhere.